How important is intelligence in the search for a partner?


Everyone wants someone.

We don’t need someone necessarily; we only think we need someone, when in fact we’re only acting upon our DNA-engraved trait to be social beings.

Women especially prize intelligence in someone who is meant to be their future partner.

It matters a lot, especially because intelligent men are hard to find.

The truth is that most of us are intelligent, but lack the skills to get that character trait up to the surface, and, instead of appearing smart, we make some serious social errors and end up being catalogued as less than average, smarts-wise.

As a man, my opinion is that, the more you prize yourself and show that you’re intelligent, the more chances you have to find a partner that’s equally as smart as you are, if not smarter.

That’s an advantage, of course, because intelligent women are also hard to find.

I say that not because most women are stupid, but because, like men, women sometimes forget to bring their intelligence to the surface, focusing instead on their outer appearance.

That’s important too, but, in my opinion, not as important as intelligence.

I’d give a beautiful woman with less than average smarts for a less beautiful but intelligent one, any day.

And if the luck is on your side and you get both intelligence and good looks in the same package, you can consider that you’ve just hit the jackpot.

In conclusion, intelligence is VERY important in attracting a quality partner.

If you show it, chances are that somewhere along the line someone that’s worthy of you will notice it and be attracted to that quality that you possess.

It’s only a matter of time.



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